Flirting tips: expressing your interest

It is not a Herculean task to show someone you like them. Agreed flirting doesn’t come naturally to all, but there are a few tactics that anyone can pick and show their interest in someone lightly and with panache. Let’s see a few instances and hints to help you get your flirting fundas right.

Across the room looks and winks and smiles are all good to show someone you are flirting with them. But to substantiate your interest, you have to get a little close and personal. If you are talking to that special one, lightly touch him on the arm or leg once in a while. This just builds contact and helps in creating a slightly more intimate setting. He will definitely get the hint and then let chemistry do its thing. A meeting in a louder environment gives you unsaid permission to lean in to listen to the woman or man you’re with. So when you’re talking, lean in a little more than required and that will surely hint to her that you’re interested.

Flirting is a beautiful way of showing your affection for that special someone. The beauty of this flirting is that it can be directive without being oppressive or overtly suggestive. Holding someone’s gaze for longer than normal, laughing at their jokes even if they are not as funny or brushing your fingers across their bare skin get across your attraction very flirtatiously without being sleazy.

When the time is right and you want to take things a little more seriously, then there is another plan to follow. Till then, happy flirting!